14 Sofa Sins & Couch Crimes That Wear Out Your Seating

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A good couch or sofa doesn’t come cheap, so once you find one you love, it only makes sense to take good care of it! There are plenty of common behaviors that can wear out couches prematurely or even break them, so avoiding those can go a long way.

In this post, I’m sharing 14 bad habits that can cause undue wear and tear to your sofa. On the bright side, all of these harmful habits are easy to avoid, and doing so will keep your sofas and couches in much better condition over time.

(For those wondering how long sofas generally last, it depends! Low-cost and mid-priced sofas have a lifespan of about 10 years, while pricier couches can last 25 years or more!)

14 Bad Habits That Can Ruin Your Sofa

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1. Always Sitting In The Same Spot

It’s fairly common to gravitate towards a certain spot on the couch, but consistently sitting in the same spot over a long period of time can cause it to wear unevenly. Your sofa could end up being saggy and worn on one end, but look and feel relatively new on the other.

Instead, mix up where you sit on the sofa. Sit on the left one day, then on the right or in the middle the next day. Distributing weight over the entire couch will help prevent premature wear in any one area.

2. Jumping On It

Resist the urge to throw yourself onto your sofa, no matter how distressing the latest episode of your favorite TV drama was! Jumping on your couch (or dropping a lot of weight onto it all at once) can weaken the frame, making it less supportive and increasing the likelihood of squeaks and creaks.

The same principle applies to recliners, so always recline gently and smoothly. Youโ€™ll keep your sofa or recliner nice for years longer just by treating it gently!

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3. Vacuuming It Infrequently

You vacuum your carpet every week, but do you vacuum your sofa? Itโ€™s a good habit to get into, because regularly vacuuming up crumbs, dirt, and other debris can help keep the upholstery clean and in better condition over time.

Start by removing the cushions and vacuuming underneath them and around the frame, then use an upholstery attachment to vacuum the cushions thoroughly.

Related: I Tried The #1 Vacuum On Amazon, And Hereโ€™s My Honest Opinion

4. Exposing It To Pollutants

When it comes to your sofaโ€™s upholstery, everyday dirt and grime arenโ€™t the only threats. Indoor pollutants like kitchen grease and cigarette smoke can settle into your upholstery too! To prevent discoloration and odors in your sofa, use the hood over your cooking range to filter out grease and smoke, and donโ€™t smoke indoors.

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5. Sleeping On It

Does sleeping on a couch damage it, really? Well, sofas are meant for sitting, not sleeping! Lying on your sofa for prolonged periods of time will cause it to sag and even deteriorate over time. A short nap is fine, but if youโ€™re settling in for a full 8 hours, itโ€™s better to make the trip to the bedroom.

6. Rarely Cleaning It

Even if your sofa doesnโ€™t look particularly dirty, there are likely all kinds of things lurking in your sofaโ€™s upholstery. Since you sit on it so often, itโ€™s important to keep it clean! Once a year or so, take the time to thoroughly clean your couch upholstery (or hire a professional to do it).

Ways You're Ruining Your Sofa - can of leather wipes

7. Using The Wrong Cleaners

Avoid “all-purpose” cleaners if youโ€™re looking to make your sofa last longer. Itโ€™s better to use a cleaner thatโ€™s formulated for your specific material(s). Check out the following links to learn about cleaners that are suitable for these materials: microfiber upholstery, wood, and leather.

8. Failing To Protect The Upholstery

One of the easiest ways to keep your upholstery looking great is to protect it from getting dirty in the first place! Instituting a “no eating on the couch” rule is a simple and effective option, but if thatโ€™s not your style, you can always put a blanket or sheet over the couch when eating food, or treat the upholstery with a protective spray like Scotchgard.

Ways You're Ruining Your Sofa - woman smoothing fabric on sofa cushion

9. Never Rotating The Cushions

Another simple way to maximize the life of your sofa is to rotate the cushions regularly. Flip them over so the other side faces up, and swap their positions if possible. This will help prevent uneven wear (and it will remind you to clean stains that are easy to forget about or ignore.)

10. Putting It In A Sunny Spot

Sunlight can have a bleaching effect on certain fabrics, so itโ€™s important to position your sofa in an area that doesn’t get a lot of direct sunlight. Over time, exposure to UV rays can cause sofa upholstery to lighten unevenly, particularly around throw pillows. Keep it in a shaded area of the room, or make sure your blinds are closed during the times when the most sunlight is coming into the room.

Related: The One Extremely Simple Thing You Need To Do To Your Pillow

Ways You're Ruining Your Sofa - woman's hands using liquid and towel on sofa upholstery

11. Not Treating Stains ASAP

If something spills on your sofa, itโ€™s important to clean it immediately. The longer a stain sits on the fabric, the higher the risk that it will leave behind a permanent stain. So you can maximize your chances of lifting the stain out by tackling it right away!

Related: Is This Popular Pint-Sized Carpet Cleaner Any Good?

12. Failing To Enforce Reasonable Rules

You likely made a pretty significant financial investment in your sofa, so donโ€™t be afraid to set rules in order protect that investment! It may not do much harm to sit on the arm of a sofa or stand on a couch once or twice, but having clear rules against these behaviors will help prevent them from becoming an issue in the long run.

Ways You're Ruining Your Sofa - closeup of tightening a screw underneath a sofa

13. Neglecting Regular Maintenance

Furniture joins can get loose and wobbly from regular use, so take the time to tighten those screws and bolts regularly. It might require a bit of effort to get to the underside of your sofa, but itโ€™s well worth the effort! A wobbly foot on your sofa is more likely to break, so tightening a few screws could help avoid an expensive repair (or replacement) down the road.

Related: 9 Important Home Maintenance Tasks You Need To Stop Ignoring

Ways You're Ruining Your Sofa - woman behind a sofa smiling

14. Moving It Around Haphazardly

The most perilous time for your furniture is during a move from one location to another, so make sure to be careful! Always lift your sofa, rather than pushing, pulling, or dragging it. And donโ€™t stack heavy items against or on top of your sofa, as that can cause damage as well.

Related: 7 Design Mistakes To Avoid (Or Correct) In Your Home

Do you have any tips for keeping your sofa in good shape?

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  1. To sit on a different area of the coach, this for me is isn’t possible, I read on the coach, look at TV on the coach, have my reading, and interests in the same area, the reading light is there .I live in a 1 bedroom apartment, and the couch is my center of activity. I agree to vacuum, and clean up spills and stains, this a very good idea.

    I enjoy your website very much. Thank you for it.

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  2. Good tips! I do the same things. I do rotate my cushions( back and front are loose)
    and I change where they are too,right on left,left on right. They’re about 17 years old and the couch looks about 5 years old!

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  3. Hi Jillee! I just wanted to let everyone know that if you are planning to buy new furniture or mattresses, please be aware of the state of pricing these days. We bought a new mattress about 5 years ago and didn’t know (until we went to rotate/flip it) that the bottom was not padded or upholstered!!! We are limited to spinning the mattress head-to-foot to rotate wear! And then about three years ago we bought an inexpensive three piece set of living room furniture out of necessity, and again, when finally attempting to clean and rotate the cushions, discovered that the cushions aren’t upholstered!!! They are zippered, at least, so they can be removed, washed and replaced on the opposite cushion (left on the right, etc) , but that’s the only way they can be truly rotated!
    Let the buyer beware! and If the price seems too good to be true, it probably is!!!
    Thanks for listening! And many,many thanks for your household help!

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  4. I have 2 adorable dogs who now think they can chill with us on the sofa. I have a lovely cream leather in one room. However the dogs have left scratch marks which are a dominant black colour. I scrubbed with a scrubbing brush and soap and now its like the coating of leather has been removed. i also have a black corner leather and ive done the same with this. help?

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  5. Just paid a lot of money for my 2 & 3 seater reclining sofas and tttthere fabric ones some really useful tips thanks so much it’s my pride and joy

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  6. and do not let the pets take over the furniture!!! It will become a VERY expensive animal bed, and I do not want to sit on an chair or sofa that is for animal use!!!

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  7. Jilliee I do so enjoy your post for i find them so helpful in so many ways keep them coming.

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  8. Thank you so much for these tips, because there are so many things you listed in this post that I NEVER thought of. Thanks to you I now know how to better take care of my sofa.

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  9. I use furniture covers—I go ALL WHITE for the HOT, HOT summers in Texas. They are easy to launder and it gives the room a “new look” for very little money! I “found” all of my slip covers at thrift stores–you have to look a little–my chair ones were still in the package–at $3.00 apiece it’s a bargain. Cheers!

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  10. Yeah, I was gonna say don’t let your crazy brother-in-law crash on it for a few days, weeks, months. That’s not good for anything in your house.

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  11. Most of these are great ideas, but the estimated life span of furniture listed above is way off… I work in furniture retail. The general lifespan is 5-7 years, there are some that are estimated 8-10. Unfortunately, nothing is made the way it used to be. And today’s furniture, while beautiful, is not usually made completely out of solid wood, or metal components. If you do find something built like that, there will be a heavy price tag attached, but they will last much longer than most.

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    • We bought a queen sized sleeper sofa. Paid almost $800.00 for it. Before it was 2 months old, with gentle use, the fabric started fraying at the seams. The fabric seemed too tight on them when you sat it had no stretch, and was a velour style. We went to the furniture store, told them and they had us bring in the cushions, which they sent out to have them restitched. It did no good, it made the covers even tighter and we had no funds to replace it. By the time it was all said and done, the six month warranty was over.

      We use a cover over it…oh, and the queen size mattress? After only a couple nights of my parents sleeping on it, when they came to visit, springs came up through it…a total waste of our hard earned money! And this was a name-brand, the year was 1996.

      Please log in or create a free account to comment.
      • Most manufacturer’s carry a 1 year warranty on parts and labor. And some fabrics are better for certain frames than others…. I work in the service dept of a furniture store. I see many different issues, everything from normal wear’n’tear to structural defects. Some of the problems stem from us becoming a disposable society, and some come from the sheer fact that the cost of living has increased so much that we are paying more for “lesser” goods. To some spending $800 on a sofa is nothing, to others it is a lot. I’m in the a lot group. I work in the furniture industry and my stuff at home is 10-15 yrs old (or more). I did not buy quality. I have been very lucky, I do not have the extra $$ needed to replace an entire living room set…

      • Terrible service hope my british company look after mine if I get any problems

  12. Thank you for this post. It is timely. I just ordered a brand new couch yesterday (chairs,too) and I had total sticker shock! I do want to keep it looking nice.

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  13. My microfiber couch isnโ€™t supposed to have any protectant put on it. Especially Scotchguard. I was told to use ONLY water to clean it. Itโ€™s now about 5 years old and looks new. We had a child drop some cranberry sauce on it, and it cleaned up really well with only water. NO stain.

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    • What brand is your new sofa? I am in the market and would love to check it out.

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      • I bought it from RC Willey, I absolutely love it!

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26 Comments

  1. To sit on a different area of the coach, this for me is isn’t possible, I read on the coach, look at TV on the coach, have my reading, and interests in the same area, the reading light is there .I live in a 1 bedroom apartment, and the couch is my center of activity. I agree to vacuum, and clean up spills and stains, this a very good idea.

    I enjoy your website very much. Thank you for it.

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
  2. Good tips! I do the same things. I do rotate my cushions( back and front are loose)
    and I change where they are too,right on left,left on right. They’re about 17 years old and the couch looks about 5 years old!

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
  3. Hi Jillee! I just wanted to let everyone know that if you are planning to buy new furniture or mattresses, please be aware of the state of pricing these days. We bought a new mattress about 5 years ago and didn’t know (until we went to rotate/flip it) that the bottom was not padded or upholstered!!! We are limited to spinning the mattress head-to-foot to rotate wear! And then about three years ago we bought an inexpensive three piece set of living room furniture out of necessity, and again, when finally attempting to clean and rotate the cushions, discovered that the cushions aren’t upholstered!!! They are zippered, at least, so they can be removed, washed and replaced on the opposite cushion (left on the right, etc) , but that’s the only way they can be truly rotated!
    Let the buyer beware! and If the price seems too good to be true, it probably is!!!
    Thanks for listening! And many,many thanks for your household help!

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
  4. I have 2 adorable dogs who now think they can chill with us on the sofa. I have a lovely cream leather in one room. However the dogs have left scratch marks which are a dominant black colour. I scrubbed with a scrubbing brush and soap and now its like the coating of leather has been removed. i also have a black corner leather and ive done the same with this. help?

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
  5. Just paid a lot of money for my 2 & 3 seater reclining sofas and tttthere fabric ones some really useful tips thanks so much it’s my pride and joy

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
  6. and do not let the pets take over the furniture!!! It will become a VERY expensive animal bed, and I do not want to sit on an chair or sofa that is for animal use!!!

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
  7. Jilliee I do so enjoy your post for i find them so helpful in so many ways keep them coming.

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
  8. Thank you so much for these tips, because there are so many things you listed in this post that I NEVER thought of. Thanks to you I now know how to better take care of my sofa.

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
  9. I use furniture covers—I go ALL WHITE for the HOT, HOT summers in Texas. They are easy to launder and it gives the room a “new look” for very little money! I “found” all of my slip covers at thrift stores–you have to look a little–my chair ones were still in the package–at $3.00 apiece it’s a bargain. Cheers!

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
  10. Yeah, I was gonna say don’t let your crazy brother-in-law crash on it for a few days, weeks, months. That’s not good for anything in your house.

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
  11. Most of these are great ideas, but the estimated life span of furniture listed above is way off… I work in furniture retail. The general lifespan is 5-7 years, there are some that are estimated 8-10. Unfortunately, nothing is made the way it used to be. And today’s furniture, while beautiful, is not usually made completely out of solid wood, or metal components. If you do find something built like that, there will be a heavy price tag attached, but they will last much longer than most.

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
    • We bought a queen sized sleeper sofa. Paid almost $800.00 for it. Before it was 2 months old, with gentle use, the fabric started fraying at the seams. The fabric seemed too tight on them when you sat it had no stretch, and was a velour style. We went to the furniture store, told them and they had us bring in the cushions, which they sent out to have them restitched. It did no good, it made the covers even tighter and we had no funds to replace it. By the time it was all said and done, the six month warranty was over.

      We use a cover over it…oh, and the queen size mattress? After only a couple nights of my parents sleeping on it, when they came to visit, springs came up through it…a total waste of our hard earned money! And this was a name-brand, the year was 1996.

      Please log in or create a free account to comment.
      • Most manufacturer’s carry a 1 year warranty on parts and labor. And some fabrics are better for certain frames than others…. I work in the service dept of a furniture store. I see many different issues, everything from normal wear’n’tear to structural defects. Some of the problems stem from us becoming a disposable society, and some come from the sheer fact that the cost of living has increased so much that we are paying more for “lesser” goods. To some spending $800 on a sofa is nothing, to others it is a lot. I’m in the a lot group. I work in the furniture industry and my stuff at home is 10-15 yrs old (or more). I did not buy quality. I have been very lucky, I do not have the extra $$ needed to replace an entire living room set…

      • Terrible service hope my british company look after mine if I get any problems

  12. Thank you for this post. It is timely. I just ordered a brand new couch yesterday (chairs,too) and I had total sticker shock! I do want to keep it looking nice.

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
  13. My microfiber couch isnโ€™t supposed to have any protectant put on it. Especially Scotchguard. I was told to use ONLY water to clean it. Itโ€™s now about 5 years old and looks new. We had a child drop some cranberry sauce on it, and it cleaned up really well with only water. NO stain.

    Please log in or create a free account to comment.
    • What brand is your new sofa? I am in the market and would love to check it out.

      Please log in or create a free account to comment.
      • I bought it from RC Willey, I absolutely love it!